Being in a relationship with someone from a completely different culture has taught me a lot about how our habits are shaped by where we come from. Here’s a light-hearted and honest look at some of the differences I’ve noticed, especially after travelling to Argentina, between German and Argentinian lifestyles:
Punctuality
- Germany: Being on time is a sign of respect. If you’re not five minutes early, you’re late.
- Argentina: Time is flexible. Being 30 minutes late is totally normal—and no one’s stressed about it.
To be honest, I am glad that Carlos is very different, not a typical Argentinian, and always on time! I think it would drive me crazy if I would have to wait for someone all the time.
Meals & Eating Habits
- Germany: Meals are usually quick, structured, and efficient. Breakfast is simple, dinner is often cold.
- Argentina: Meals are social events. Dinner can start as late as 10pm and last for hours, especially with family or friends.
In Germany meals are indeed quite structured. We have a light breakfast, a big lunch normally around 12pm/1pm, in the afternoon coffee and cake and dinner is usually around 6/7pm. Whereas in Argentina, they start the day with a light, sweet breakfast, and cafe con leche, their lunch is served later, by 1pm/2pm and is a substantial meal. Then they enjoy their mate with bread around 5pm and dinner can be very late, sometimes only by 9/10pm. For me personally, I wouldn’t be able to adapt to this meal plan as I like to go to bed early and have my dinner 1-2 hours before bedtime.
Socializing
- Germany: Friendships can take time to form, but once they do, they’re deep and loyal. Plans are usually scheduled well in advance.
- Argentina: People are warm, open, and social right away. It’s not unusual to be invited to a family gathering after just meeting someone.
This is very true that Argentinian are open and welcome everyone. I noticed that when I travelled to Argentina, they make you feel so comfortable.
Family Life
- Germany: Independence is encouraged early. Many people move out young and visit family on special occasions.
- Argentina: Family is central. It’s common to live close to—or even with—family well into adulthood. There is a strong support between one another.
Work-Life Balance
- Germany: Work is taken seriously. Schedules are organized and rules are followed. Efficiency is key.
- Argentina: There’s a more relaxed approach. Flexibility and improvisation are part of daily life. Most of the shops are closing around lunch time and people take a long “siesta”. This is mainly due to the heat and not many people go out shopping at that time of the day. Shops re-open by 3pm/4pm.
Mate vs. Coffee
- Germany: Coffee is essential. Usually drunk alone, at work, or with cake in the afternoon.
- Argentina: Mate is a shared ritual. It’s all about community and conversation, not just the drink itself.
Holidays & Celebrations
- Germany: Christmas is cozy and traditional—markets, snow, candles, and order.
- Argentina: Christmas is loud, sunny, and celebrated with fireworks and outdoor parties.
Communication Style
- Germany: Direct and to the point. Honesty is valued over politeness.
- Argentina: Expressive and emotional. Conversations are full of gestures and passion.
These differences used to surprise me, but now I appreciate how they enrich our daily lives. We’ve found a balance—combining the structure and reliability I grew up with, and the spontaneity and warmth he brings from Argentina. Together, we get the best of both worlds. Are you also having a partner with a different cultural background? Drop a comment below!